Simon & Schuster Audio, New York, 1997.  ISBN 0-671-57627-5.  2 audio cassette tapes with an approx. playing time of 3 hours; still in manufacturer’s shrink wrap, a few tears to wrap and sticker on rear.  Read by the Author.  ‘A superb writer who presents his vast knowledge of psychiatry with the art of a novelist, Kramer probes the complexities of human relationships:  How do we choose our partners?  How well do we know them?  How do mood states affect our assessment of them and theirs of us?  When should we work to improve a relationship, and when should we walk away?  Kramer’s questions lead to a reconsideration of our culture’s norms – and to a suggestion that we may have begun to overvalue autonomy and assertiveness at the cost of intimacy and connectedness.’ (from rear box)